Depends on the person and the circumstances. I had a boyfriend who was pressuring me to have sex when I wasn't ready. We got into a big argument and he called me a "frigid bitch" and I felt physically afraid of him. Thankfully my friends were there and they kicked him out. I broke up with him and never spoke to him again. I would never give him a second chance, if my friends hadn't been with me I think he would have hurt me.